Every single girl in their college years/early 20s has a forbidden "number." If you're above a certain range you're subsequently coined a slut or will have rumors spread about you. Either way, as "slutty" as this may sound, I think that this secretive number that we all have is analogous with the number we see on a scale/the number of our pant size....IT DOESN'T MATTER!!!!!!
The number of men you have slept with is as trivial as the number you see on the scale. What's most important is how you feel about yourself. If you have sex with a different guy every night, aren't safe, enjoy the slutty "image" but always feel shitty about yourself then maybe you should rethink your sexual decisions. Same thing goes on the other hand, if you are stick skinny, look like the airbrushed models in magazines, but starve yourself and rely on drugs/unhealthy methods for weight loss and thus always feel shitty/cranky/hungry then maybe you should rethink your nutritional decisions.
On a more positive note: if you have had some one night stands and random hook ups in your wildest days, yet have been completely safe and do not regret these decisions than Jay-Z says it best: "LADIES IS PIMPS TOO, go brush yo' shoulders off" And if you love the way you look and love your body, then honestly, who cares what the scale reads/what number pant size you are?
A healthy mind is the only way to achieve a healthy body.
I am finally getting back into blogging and will continue my normal nutrition/fitness posts ASAP, just thought this little analogy is important for girls in my age-range to keep in mind these days...
PS- the new blog name is more fitting for me these days ;) I'm still toying with some other titles, but until then this will suffice. Who says you can't be healthy and party hard at the same time? Isn't that what being a 22 year old single girl is about anyway? :)